"Father Figure" boss-how to deal?

I work with someone I have know for years(through church), he is actually my boss and I have worked for him almost 2 years. I have noticed that he tries to be my father figure. The biggest hint is that he says "youre like a daughter to me." If I have a bad day he will dome in my office and say "you seem different I am very worried about you, is there something you need to tell me." He tries to tell me how to run my life, like what to do, when to do, how to do. He use to call me after work and just talk about whatever, I finally go the guts to tell him to quit calling but he didn't like that very much. He gets mad if I miss church and has told me once that my marriage will fail since I "missed a much needed service about marriage." Now on the other hand I have caught him several times checking me out and looking me up and down. On several occasions he will say "you have something on your back/backside" and try and get it, but I always stop him before he does. He also will come in my office and stand directly behind my chair while I work, and it makes me think he is trying to look down my shirt or the back of my pants. He has told me "WOW you look great today" I do not wear anything low or short. How do you deal will a boss who acts like this?